High value people are defined to be people who have high esteem of themselves, and people who are in control of their lives and what revolves around them. They are people whom you would want to be around with, and definitely people you would want to have a cup of coffee with. Today in this article, I am going to share with you some of the characteristics that make high-value people be high-value people.
1. They are constantly developing themselves
The high-value people are selfish when it comes to developing themselves. They are constantly on the go to improve their lives and their inner selves. Simply because, high-value people are always looking for a better vibe and better world around them. ‘But how are they actually improving themselves?’, you might be asking.
When it comes to self-improvement, the high-value people are always and constantly learning new skills. They are learning skills to interact well with the people around them. They are learning skills to building healthy relationships. If they are struggling with a certain area in their lives, say finance, they go and learn skills to build their finances. They are struggling with dating, cool, they go and look for a dating coach to improve their dating game. The high-value people are obsessed with knowledge, because they always want to know what is happening around them. Look, they definitely don’t want to be ignorant. Because being ignorant will lead them to not taking control of their lives.
The second characteristic of high-value people is that…
2. They intentionally connect and build healthy relationships
High value people are worth being around with. That means, the high value people are always looking to high-worth relationships. They want to build relationships with other high-value people. People they can resonate with, grow together with, and build long-term positive relationships with.
If there is one thing that high-value people value badly, it’s building a good network. Because their network is their net-worth, remember. And because the high-value people are always in control of their lives, they therefore are intentional in building this network. So if it’s their romantic relationships, they make sure they are getting the positive partners that they click with. If it’s in business, they make sure they have the right team and partners they can trust and grow positively with. And if they find out the relationships are not healthy anymore, they kindly walk away.
Which brings us to the third characteristic of high-value people…
3. They are kind to the world around them
Look…high-value people want to bring high-value impact back to the surrounding around them. It’s why they are constantly improving themselves. To make sure they are first becoming high-value themselves, and second they are transferring the high-value vibe to other people around them. They are entering into healthy relationships because they want other people around them to be happy and healthy too.
Now, this does not mean the high-value people accept every person in their lives. No. If high-value people find trash along their way, they will try to clean it up. If the trash doesn’t clean up, they will toss it through the window and move on with their lives. In simple words, high-value people are only kind to people who are ready to receive their kindness. If the world around them does not want their kindness, they will always walk away peacefully. And this selective character, is what makes them be of high value.
These are my 3 top characteristics of high-value people. If you ticked in all of the characteristics above, you are definitely a high-value person. And that therefore means, I want to have a cup of coffee with you.
